Love your neighbour as yourself. Love does no wrong to a neighbour. (Romans 13:9,10)

How can we get along with those we live with? Oscar Wilde believed that ‘other people are quite dreadful; the only possible society is oneself.’ Wrong, Oscar, and sad. (There is more wisdom in something else he said: ‘In this world there are only two tragedies. One is not getting what one wants, and the other is getting it.’)

You begin by knowing who the real ‘me’ is. If you don’t like yourself you won’t enjoy living with others either. When I ask people in counseling ‘What do you like about yourself?’ I often get a ‘nothing’ response. Some of us avoid responsibility for our behaviour with the excuse ‘Well, nobody’s perfect.’ True, but you don’t have to opt out of growing; nor do you have to live with the negative self-fulfilling prophecies you or others have heaped on yourself. At the deepest level your identity, your perception of who you are, has derived from what others have communicated to you about you. It’s on the esteem of others that you base your own self-esteem.

With the help of a caring friend, learn to accept yourself. You are an unrepeatable miracle of God’s creation. If you want to get along with others, you had better start with the person inside your own skin!

‘Thank you Lord, for making me me!’ Amen.

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