I have had gay friends in the past. Unfortunately, I did not try very hard to keep in contact with them, and at the time I did not understand that gayness was still sinful even though inborn. I thought, "Hey, if they are born with it, that automatically means it is non-sinful." Boy was I ever wrong.

However, It is not sin to just have gay tendencies. The sin is to have sex with somebody of the same gender. Just having gay feelings is not sinful. It is the ACTION that is sinful.

Lesbians are different. As I've posted in another article, the British professor just "decided" to become a lesbian, because she was working on "feminist" causes. And so her sin was to abandon her own husband, who she even admitted "took it badly."

Lesbianism seems a totally different thing from male gayness. Male gayness is all about objectified sexual lust, (treating the other man as an object) whereas lesbianism seems to be more about emotional support between women who are "damaged goods." It seems like lesbians have usually been poorly treated by men, so they "give up" on men and try to find "love" in other women.

For this I blame men, since not many men these days subscribe to the old ideals of chivalry. (opening doors, showing respect, sending flowers, and all the rest of it. Think Pride and Predudice by Jane Austen). The more men act like pigs, the more lesbians there will be, is my prediction.

Gay men are treating one another as sexual objects, and lesbians have usually been treated as objects by evil men. The common thread between them is the objectification of human bodies as sexual tools, rather than emotional and spiritual bonding on the deepest levels.

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