Read: 1 Corinthians 13

[Love] thinks no evil.
-1 Corinthians 13:5

When people hurt us and then apologize, we may say
that we forgive them. But like a dog that won’t give up
its bone, we may let our mind continue to chew on past
insults.

In 1 Corinthians 13:5, Paul declared that love “thinks
no evil.” He was using an accountant’s term that
described the recording of figures in a book. Love does
the opposite – it does not keep a record of wrongs.
Instead, love forgives and refuses to keep it on the
books.

If you want to remember something, you go over it
again and again. The child reviews his spelling words;
the actress rehearses her lines; you review people’s
names that you want to remember. But love deliberately
and consciously lets go of past hurts and gives them to
God.

It was said of one religious leader, “He never forgot
slights done to him, which was his fundamental weakness.
He might bury the hatchet for a time, but he gave the
impression of always marking the spot.”

In contrast, when Methodist minister William Sangster
was addressing Christmas cards, a friend noticed one
name and remarked, “Don’t you remember how he slighted
you?” Sangster responded, “Oh yes, I remember, but I
have remembered to forget.” Let’s follow his example.
-Haddon W. Robinson

Lord, help me be kind and forgiving -
Your loving forgiveness You’ve shown
To me for the sins I’ve committed;
Lord, grant me a love like Your own. -Anon.

REMEMBER TO FORGIVE -
THEN REMEMBER TO FORGET.

OUR DAILY BREAD, Copyright 1998 by Radio Bible Class,
Grand Rapids,Michigan. Used by permission.

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